Exams are approaching soon and you need to help your children sail through them with flying colours. You cannot do the revision for them, but there is plenty you can do to help your child get organised, stay motivated and keep calm.
1. Help your child to draw up a revision timetable. This should list dates, details of the subject and topics to revise and what they would like to finish by when. The timeline can have a checklist, so tasks can be ticked off as your child goes along. These can be adapted to suit the needs of your child. 2. Make sure that your social life/ job is not interfering with their studying. They need rest and sleep to make sure that their brains are active and open to learning. 3. Work with your child. Set goals you both think are realistic in a particular time. Ticks on the timetable will show success. Do try to keep up to date with how he/ she's getting on. 4. If certain goals are not met, don't be negative with your child - try to figure out together what went wrong and help him / her to get back on track.
Getting started on a big job like revision is tough for many people, but you can help your child get motivated. Praise and rewards work well. Use the revision timetable to plan out small rewards when a certain number of targets have been met. These might include watching a favourite TV programme, calling a friend or having an afternoon off. Help your child to see beyond the revision, too. Remind her / him how rewarding it will be to know s/he did her best. A bigger final reward, such as a pair of trainers, a holiday or a local visit somewhere exciting will give them something to look forward to when it's all over.
As far as possible, try to make sure that revision time is quiet time in the house. A healthy diet and regular exercise are also especially important when your child is under pressure. If your child is highly motivated, it's important to make sure that she doesn't overwork. Breaks are essential. Remind your child that even a short 15-20 minute break every 90 minutes will refresh their mind. Studying in a group can be helpful, too, although sometimes more chatting gets done than work! Children can pick up new ideas, talk about exam stress and help each other with areas they're finding difficult. Reduce stress Just being present is a great start to help your child reduce stress during revisions and exams. Here are some tips for managing stress:
- Encourage your son or daughter to get enough sleep. Tiredness promotes anxiety.
- Remind them to avoid large doses of caffeine - it can cause tension and anxiety.
- Help them not to dwell on previous exams. This can also increase anxiety about later papers.
- Encourage them to try relaxation exercises. They can reduce anxiety levels and cope with panicky feelings.
Healthy Body = Healthy Mind Encourage your child to eat regular, healthy meals.
- Bread, pasta, cereals and potatoes are filling and packed with starchy carbohydrates, which release energy slowly, meaning you can keep going for longer.
- Make sure you eat breakfast on the day of an exam.
- If you`re not getting enough iron then you`ll damage your ability to concentrate for long periods of time and your energy levels will begin to drop. If hour long sessions of revision are proving too much, try eating more red meat, eggs and leafy green vegetables like spinach.
- Fruit and vegetables give you essential vitamins and minerals. Aim for at least five portions a day.
- Food like pastries, chips and crisps are high in fat. Avoid them.
- Drink plenty of fluids. Dehydrated brains don't think clearly and water is healthier than sweet, fizzy drinks.
- Meat, fish, pulses, milk and dairy foods are good sources of protein.
Exercise Although it is essential to use revision time effectively, a bit of the great outdoors can blow the cobwebs away and help your child relax. If they can't get out, at least encourage them to get up and out of their chair for a stretch and a wander whilst revising.
- Offer to help with testing and any subjects they are finding to difficult to revise.
- Make sure they read thoroughly former or mock exam papers.
- Know their revision timetable. Encourage them to tell you about what they are studying.
- Know the date, time and location for each exam and incorporate this into a revision plan.
On exam days You can do a lot to help your child prepare for exam days.
- Make sure the alarm is set so they`re not rushing and have time to eat breakfast.
- Encourage them to take five minutes to check they have everything they need, like extra pens and pencils, calculators and maths equipment
- Say: `Don`t panic, don`t worry - just do your best.` Tell them to say it to themselves during an exam.